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Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), Self-love, Narcissism, Narcissists, Psychopaths,


And Relationships with Abusers, Stalkers, and Bullies

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My Works in: Philosophy  Economics and International Affairs  Technology  Short Fiction and Poetry

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Teaching Positions Held

Visiting Professor of Psychology in Southern Federal University, Rostov-on-Don, Russia

Professor of Finance and Psychology in SIAS-CIAPS (Centre for International Advanced and Professional Studies)

Membership in Organizing Committees of International Conferences - Click HERE!

My Work Cited in Scholarly Publications and Academic Journals:

American Journal of Psychiatry, Psychology Today, American Journal of Family Therapy, Google Scholar, International Journal of Psychology Research,

Journal of Film and Video, Biomedical Ethics for Engineers, Philosophy, Psychology and Psychiatry, Journal of Counseling and Development, AI and Society,

International Journal of Law and Psychiatry, Aggression and Violent Behavior, Journal of Religion and Health, Studies in Philosophy and Education, EC Psychology and Psychiatry,

Currents, Journal for the Scientific Study of Religion, Kybernets, Journal of Biomedical Informatics, Journal of Forensic Dental Sciences, Journal of Clinical Review and Case Reports,

Journal of Addiction Research, Journal of Psychology and Psychotherapy, Journal of Neurology, Psychiatry and Brain Research, Journal of Educational and Psychological Research,

EC Psychology and Psychiatry, and more as well as in dozens of Dissertations and Theses

In the Press

CNN, Financial Times, Prague Post, Sunday Times, New-York Times, Newsweek (Serbia), Flare, Vice, Forbes, The Australian,

More Magazine, New-York Post, Washington Post, USA Today, UPI, NY Daily News,, Canadian TV,

Metro Newspapers, Washington Times, Radio-Television Suisse (RTS), YLE, Cosmopolitan, Kurir and Newsweek, Vancouver Sun,

New Statesman, The Telegraph, MovieBETA, Oberösterreichische Nachrichten, Polska Gazeta, A1 Now TV, and many MORE!!!

Cited in Psychology Today, scholarly literature, and more than 4000 books


Egomania”, “I, Narcissist and Cruel”, “I, Psychopath” “How Narcissists Took Over the World

Narcissistic Abuse: An Unspoken Reality”, “Plugged-in: The True Toxicity of Social Media Revealed

Follow me on Twitter, Facebook (my page or the book’s), YouTube, Instagram, Google Plus

Click HERE to Download Videos about narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships

Editorial Boards

Editor in Chief of Journal of Psychology and Psychiatry Studies (Certificate of Editorship)

Editor in Chief of Mental Health in Family Medicine

Co-Editor in Chief of Mental Health and Addiction Research

Member of the Editor Program

Member of the Editorial Board of Journal of Educational and Psychological Research

Member of the Editorial Board of Journal of Psychiatry and Mental Health

Member of the Editorial Board of International Journal of Psychiatry Research

Member of the Editorial Board of CPQ Neurology and Psychology

Member of the Editorial Board of Addiction Research

Member of the Editorial Board of International Journal of Psychology and Behavior Analysis

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Member of the Editorial Board of Archives of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences

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Member of the Editorial Board of Psychology and Psychological Research International Journal (PPRIJ)

Member of the Editorial Board of Journal of Psychiatry and Mental Health Behavior

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Member of the Editorial Board of Journal of Clinical Review & Case Reports

Member of the Editorial Board of Archives in Neurology and Neuroscience

Member of the Editorial Board of Journal of Addiction and Addictive Disorders

Associate Editor of International Journal of Arts and Humanities

Member of the Editorial Board of Psychology Research

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Member of the Editorial Board of Mathews Journal of Psychiatry and Mental Health

Member of the Editorial Board of Clinical Depression

Member of the Editorial Board of Applied Psychiatry

Member of the Editorial Board of Asclepius Medical Case Reports

Member of the Editorial Board of Psychology and Psychotherapy: Research Study

Member of the Editorial Board of EC Psychology and Psychiatry

Member of the Editorial Board of Journal of Neurology, Psychiatry, and Brain Research

Member of the Editorial Board of Global Journal of Addiction and Rehabilitation Medicine

Member of the Editorial Board of Research Journal of Sports and Health Psychology

Member of the Editorial Board of Bipolar Disorder (Open Access)

Member of the Editorial Panel of EC Neurology

Member of the Editorial Board of Journal of Addiction and Prevention

Member of the Editorial Board of Jacobs Journal of Psychiatry and Behavioural Science

Member of the Editorial Board of Annals of Psychiatry and Treatment

Member of the Editorial Board of SunKrist Journal of Psychiatry and Mental Health (Editorial Certificate)

Member of the Editorial Board of Journal of Psychiatry and Behaviour Therapy

Member of the Editorial Board of Open Access Journal of Behavioural Science and Psychology

Membership in the Organizing Committees of Scientific/Academic Conferences


Canneslions Creative Academy, Cannes, June 2019


World Psychiatrists and Psychologists Conference, Las Vegas, March 2020


The Talks on Psychiatry and Mental Health, San Antonio, August 2020 (conference flyer)


World Conference on Psychiatry and Mental Health, London, March 2020


2nd Global Conference on Addiction Medicine, Behavioral Health, and Psychiatry, Orlando, October 2020


2nd World Congress on Psychiatry and Psychological Syndromes, Madrid, November 2019


3rd International Conference on Addiction Therapy and Clinical Reports, Venice, August 2020

4th World Congress on Neuropsychiatry, Sleep Disorders and Medicine, Rome, November, 2019

3rd International Conference on Mental Health and Psychiatry, Chicago, November 2019

19th International Conference on Applied Psychology and Psychiatry, Warsaw, October 2019

2nd International Conference on Addiction Therapy and Clinical Reports, Barcelona, August 2019

2019 World Neuroscience and Psychiatry Conference, Singapore, September 2019

World Congress on Neurological and Psychiatric Disorders, Kuala Lumpur, November 2019

4th World Congress and Expo on Dementia and Neuroscience, Kuala Lumpur, November 2019   Brochure

International Conference on Addiction, Psychiatry, and Mental Health, Rome, October 2019

World Congress on Psychiatry and Mental Health, Barcelona, September 2019

World Congress on Psychiatry and Psychology, Kyoto, May 2020

32nd International Conference on Mental and Behavioral Health, Kyoto, April 2020

Euro Mental Health 2020, Paris, March 2020

Psychology Health 2019, Dubai, November 2019

World Brain Congress, Istanbul, November 2019

Mental Health and Wellness, London, September 2019

Psychiatry and Mental Health 2020, Las Vegas, June 2020

World Congress on Mental Health, London, November 2019

Positive Psychology and Happiness 2019, Dubai, November 2019

2nd World Neuron Congress, Rome, December 2019

3rd International Conference on Addiction Research and Therapy, Amsterdam, March 2020

3rd International Conference on Clinical and Counselling Psychology, Tokyo, June 2020

International Conference on Neurology and Brain Disorders, London, September 2019

World Congress on Psychiatry and Neuro Disorders, Kuala Lumpur, March 2020

BIT’s 10th Annual World Congress of NeuroTalk 2019, Osaka, May 2019 and NeuroTalk 2020, Singapore, May 2020

International Conference on Applied Psychology, Psychiatry and Mental Health, Los Angeles, USA, November 2018

32nd International Conference on Psychiatry and Mental Health, Brisbane, June 2020

Psychiatric and Psychological Health Psychiatry Conclave 2020, Bali, April 2020

Annual Conference on Mental Health, Paris, November 2019

Global Experts Meet on Neurology and Neuropsychiatry, Kyoto, March 2020

Annual Conference on Mental Health, Paris, November 2019

World Congress on Psychiatry, Psychology, and Mental Health, Valencia, November 2019

5th World Congress and Expo on Neurology and Mental Disorders, Vancouver, April 2020

35th International Conference on Psychiatry and Mental Health, Osaka, May 2020

Plenareno Depression Conference 2020, Dubai, April 2020

Annual Congress on Psychiatry and Mental Health, Osaka, September 2020

International Conference on Mental Health and Psychiatry, Amsterdam, April 2020

32nd World Psychiatrists and Psychologists Meet, Sydney, June 2020

Clinical Psychology and Neuroscience, Brussels, September 2020

3rd International Conference on Neurology and Brain Disorders, Dublin, June 2019 (OCM certificate) (Video Presentation certificate)

4th World Congress on Psychiatry and Mental Health Nursing, Rome, June 2019

World Brain Congress, Dubai, UAE, December 2018

International Conference on Neuroscience and Neurosurgery, Beijing, September 2019

27th Edition of International Conference on Clinical Psychology and Neuroscience, Zurich, February 2019

Global Experts Meeting on Mental Health, Psychology, Psychiatry and Nursing Care, Rome, October 2019

29th Euro Congress of Psychiatrists and Psychologists, Berlin, June 2019

22nd World Congress on Psychology and Behavioral Science, Amsterdam, September 2019

Conference on Neurology and Psychiatry, Rome, September 2019

International Conference on Neurology and Neuro Disorders, London, June 2019

Global Conference on Addiction and Behavioral Health, London, UK, August 2019

Global Conference on Nursing and Healthcare, Rome, Italy, June 2019

7th International Conference on Brain Disorders and Therapeutics, Brussels, September 2019

Psychology 2019: Psychology, Neurology, and Mental Health Summit, London, September 2019

International Conference on Addiction and Behavioral Science, Dubai, June 2019

30th International Conference on Public Mental Health and Neuroscience, Dubai, June 2019

International Conference on Clinical and Experimental Neuropsychology, Berlin, July 2019

Neurology and Brain Disorders Conference, Rome, July 2019

Sleep Disorders and Psychiatry, Vienna, July 2019

World Summit on Psychiatry Disorders, Mental Health, and Wellness, Philadelphia, June 2019

Modern Trends in Health Economics, Healthcare, and Technologies 2019, Venice, May 2019

9th Global Experts Meeting on Advances in Neurology and Neuropsychiatry, Melbourne, July 2019

3rd International Conference Clinical and Counseling Psychology, Singapore, August 2018

Psychiatry 2018, Rome, Italy, July 2018

30th World Psychiatrists and Psychologists Meet, Osaka, Japan, October 2018

Conference Schedule Scientific Program OCM certificate Presentation Applaud Certificate Conference Book

35th International Conference on Psychiatry and Psychosomatic Medicine, Brussels, Belgium, November 2018 Abstract

28th Conference Nursing Practice 2018, Dubai, November 2018 Conference Brochure

31st American Psychiatry and Psychology Congress, Orlando, Florida, USA, March 2019


5th International Conference on Mental Health and Human Resilience, Barcelona, Spain, March 2019

10th EuroSciCon Conference on Psychiatry, Psychology, and Brain Studies, Paris, April 2019  (Certificate of Video Presentation)

2nd International Conference on Addiction Research and Therapy, Prague, May 2019

28th International Conference on Nursing Care, Vienna, May 2019

2nd International Conference and Expo on Clinical Psychology, Paris, France, January 2019

30th World Summit on Positive Psychology, Mindfulness, Psychotherapy, and Philosophy, Chicago, March 2019

6th International Conference on Depression, Anxiety, and Stress Management, London, April 2019

29th International Conference on Adolescent Medicine and Child Psychology, Rome, Italy, December 2018

31st World Psychiatrists and Psychologists Meet, Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam, June 2019

Papers Published 2018-

Cold Therapy and Narcissistic Disorders of the Self, Journal of Clinical Review and Case Reports, Volume 3, Issue 6, 2018

Narcissistic disorders of the Self as Addictions, Journal of Addiction Research, Volume 2, Issue 2, 2018

Brain Injury and Trauma and Changes in Personality, Journal of Neurology, Psychiatry, and Brain Research, Volume 2019, Issue 1

Narcissism, Shame, Happiness, EC Psychology and Psychiatry, 8.3 (2019): 242-245

Education as a Public Good, Journal of Educational and Psychological Research, Vol1, Issue 1, 2019


The content of this Web site is based on correspondence since 1996

With more than a thousand people diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (narcissists)

And with tens of thousands of their family members, friends, therapists, and colleagues.



Dear Author/Editor,


I am Sam Vaknin, author of "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" a pioneering work of reference, now in its 10th, DSM-5 compatible revision, about Narcissistic Personality Disorder and of other books about personality disorders.


I have been studying pathological, malignant narcissism for several years now, mostly in the following contexts:


I.                 Corporate settings and in Politics - click HERE for online resources


II.               Abusive and Dysfunctional relationships - click HERE for online resources and a TIP SHEET: Cope with Your Abuser


Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a serious, often undiagnosed condition, frequently related to abuse in childhood.


In many cases the disorder compels the sufferer to become the abuser in turn.


Once almost unheard of, pathological narcissism is now considered to be at the heart of phenomena as diverse as corporate malfeasance, workplace bullying, the emergence of murderous dictatorships, domestic violence, and serial killings.


I would be delighted to assist you in putting together a report, a segment, an issue, an article, or series of articles - regarding this disorder.


Click here to review some ideas for articles!


I am also available for interviews.


Click here to download extensive excerpts from my book, or the full text of "The Narcissism Book of Quotes".


Review copies of my book are available upon request - click here to write to my publisher and read some Testimonials.


Kindly scroll down to learn more about me, how I can help you, my contact details and additional online resources.

Online Photo Exhibition: The Old-New Face of the Narcissist - Click HERE!!! 


vakninft.jpg About me (download my bio)


I am the author of Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited, the pioneering work about narcissistic abuse, now in its 10th , DSM-V compatible revision. My work is quoted in well over 1000 scholarly publications and in over 3000 books (partial list here). My Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse YouTube channel and my other channels have more than 25.1 million views and 97,000 subscribers.


The Web site "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" had been, for many years, an Open Directory Cool Site and is a Psych-UK recommended Site.

I am not a mental health professional though I am certified in psychological counseling techniques by Brainbench.

I served as the editor of Mental Health Disorders categories in the Open Directory Project and on I maintain my own Websites about the Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and about relationships with abusive narcissists and psychopaths here and in HealthyPlace.

You can read my work on many other Web sites: Mental Health Matters, Mental Health Sanctuary, Mental Health Today, Kathi's Mental Health Review and others. I write a column for Bellaonline on Narcissism and Abusive Relationships and am a frequent contributor to Websites such as and Bizymoms (where I am an expert on personality disorders).

I served as the author of the Personality Disorders topic, Narcissistic Personality Disorder topic, the Verbal and Emotional Abuse topic, and the Spousal Abuse and Domestic Violence topic, all four on Suite101. I am the moderator of the Narcissistic Abuse Study List , the Toxic Relationships Study List, and other mailing lists with a total of c. 20,000 members. I also publish a bi-weekly Abusive Relationships Newsletter.

You can view my biography here.

I suggest you read this first, "What is Pathological Narcissism?"

How Can I help

Subject to appropriate credit, I would be happy:

I. To write materials for the article/issue

II. Collaborate with the authors/editors of the article/issue

III. Participate with an interview

IV. Grant you access to the members of my extensive e-mail lists (more than 6000 members)

V. Grant you permission to quote, at any length, from my books about narcissism (and especially from "Malignant Self Love - Narcissism Revisited")

VI. Provide oral or written background material.

Contact Details

I travel often but you can always contact me through my numbers in Macedonia or in Russia.

The local time is GMT+1 or EST+6.

I can be contacted by phone (or via Skype - click HERE to learn more):

(From the USA, also via WhatsApp or Viber)



(From outside the USA, also via WhatsApp or Viber)



E-mail: (Backup address. Kindly copy all correspondence to both e-mail addresses).


You May Wish to Start Here - click on these links to learn more:


Pathological narcissism is at the root of social ills as diverse as terrorism, corporate malfeasance, and crime.

Click HERE to download a ZIP file with:

Mirror, Mirror - Interview with the Toronto Sun and other interviews, chat transcripts, dialogs, bibliographies, and scholarly articles.

Financial Times: When narcissism becomes pathological (click HERE to download the article)

CNN Cover story: Reality bites after the lights go out

New-York Daily News: Stop the insane insanity defense and CNN: Are You Addicted to Praise?

Corporate Narcissism


Narcissism in the Boardroom (United Press International/UPI - Part I, Part II)


New Narc City: Sam Vaknin and the Narcissism of Wall Street (New-York Press)

Executives Are Smitten, and Undone, by Their Own Images (New-York Times)

Nobody Loves T.O. Like T.O. Loves T.O. (Washington Post)

Is your ego big enough to get ahead in the workplace? (The Telegraph)

Abusive Relationships

The Monster in the Mirror (Sunday Times)

Faultless Nation by Cal Thomas

Celebrities Just Want to be Left Alone (USA Today)

Has your man got a cheating disorder (More! Magazine)

Are you dating a narcissist? Take our quiz (Metro newspapers)

Narcissistic personality disorder is not harmless behavior (Washington Times)

Vain Love: Relationships with Narcissists (Oberösterreichische Nachrichten: page 1 and page 2)

Crime and Terrorism

Mass and Serial Killers (

Narcissism and Terrorism (The Idler) 

Shooting stirs gun debate (Prague Post)

Somatic Narcissist Killer (Canadian TV)

To learn about this disorder...


Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Pathological Narcissism at a Glance:

A Primer on Narcissism (scholarly text):

My work is quoted in more than 1000 scholarly publications and in over 5000 books


Search for "Sam Vaknin" on Amazon, Google, and on Google Scholar – or, Click on these links:


Citation of my work in scholarly journals (Google Scholar)


My work cited in books about Narcissism (Amazon)


My work cited in well over 3000 books (Google Books)


My work cited in an additional 4000 books (Google Books)


My work on narcissism cited in the literature (Google Scholar) 


You can download some of the scholarly and media articles which cite my work here.

Or, read these Introductory Chats about Narcissism

Radio and TV Shows regarding Relationships with Abusive Narcissists


Narcissists as Abusers TV Shows

(Click "On Demand" at the bottom of the player and select the relevant shows on narcissism and abuse)

Narcissism - Listen to the Infinite Mind Radio Show

ABC Radio Psychopaths in Suits

"I, Narcissist and Cruel" (Radio-Television Suisse)

How Narcissists Took Over the World (Vice UK)

Narcissistic Abuse: An Unspoken Reality

Egomania Channel 4 (United Kingdom) - on the Wikipedia - Watch It

Listen to Conversations with a Narcissist - Click HERE for MP3

Network Courage Interview: HERE and HERE

Interview with Monda Williams - Click HERE to listen

Help Me Rhonda! radio talk show on narcissists

Phil Hendrie Show - Part I, Part II

The Narcissist in the Dark Room      Download

"I, Psychopath" Documentary (Arte, CBC) - on IMDB (Vaknin and "I, Psychopath")

Readers' reviews of "Malignant Self Love - Narcissism Revisited":

(Or, click on this link - - and search for "Sam Vaknin" or "Malignant Self Love"). 

You can also search my entire site:

Take care,

Sam Vaknin

Ideas for Articles

1. Why do narcissists hate Christmas?

Click here to find out!

2. Narcissistic leaders, from Hitler to Bush (or Obama, or Saddam Hussein, depending on your political predilections)

Click here to learn more about narcissistic leaders.

3. Celebrity and induced (situational) narcissism

You can find out more about this topic here and here.

4. Corporate malfeasance and megalomania

Corporate narcissism is described here.

5. Divorcing a narcissist or a psychopath

Tips and advice available here.

6. Religion as narcissistic mass psychosis

Discover how narcissists abuse religion - click here.

7. Child prodigies sometimes develop into raging, malignant narcissists

The developmental path of a Wunderkind - click here.

8. Egomania in restrictive and disciplinarian institutional settings (prisons, hospitals, army)

For a detailed overview - click here.

9. Autism spectrum disorders (such as Asperger's Disorder) as Ego disturbances

Autism Spectrum Disorders are sometimes misdiagnosed as pathological narcissism - learn how this happens here.

10. Narcissism and genocide

A connection first suggest by Freud - read about the Narcissism of Small Differences here.

11. Narcissists and Psychopaths on the Internet

The Internet is the ideal playpen for narcissists and psychopaths - click here to learn more (and here if you read Spanish).


What the Media have to say

“Few people can claim to have increased the public awareness of NPD to such a degree.”

Adrian Tampany, Financial Times Weekend Magazine, September 4-5, 2010

“Malignant Self-love (is a) ... magnum opus”

Yvonne Roberts, Sunday Times, September 16, 2007

"Sam Vaknin is the world’s leading expert on narcissism."

Tim Hall, New York Press, Volume 16, Issue 7 - February 12, 2003

Interviews (New-York Times, New-York Post, Washington Post and other major media)

 United Press International  Part I Part II

"Vaknin’s a respected expert on malignant narcissists ... He set about to know everything there is about the psychopathic narcissist."

Ian Walker, ABC Radio National Background Briefing, July 18, 2004

What Mental Health Professionals and Authors have to say

“Among many books published on the topic of pathological narcissism, this is by far the best.


It is highly recommended not only for the general public but also for professional therapists.”

(Akira Otani, Ed.D.,ABPH, University of Maryland)

“Seminal book on narcissism ... distinguished by its many ‘insider’ insights... depicts this personality disorder in ways that most readers, experientially, can easily relate to.”

(Psychology Today, written by: Leon F. Seltzer, Ph.D., clinical psychologist and author of “Paradoxical Strategies in Psychotherapy”)

"Sam is doing a great work on pathological narcissism.

His book "Malignant self love" is our first guideline in handling malignant types of patients in the forensic setting."

(Dr. Sanja Radeljak, MD, PhD, psychiatrist and forensic expert, Neuropsychiatric hospital "Dr. Ivan BarbotPopovaca, Croatia)


“Sam Vaknin is the number one author in guiding this understanding - technically rich - and serious in details of specific dynamics other authors don't get ...


This is the one book to support professionals and people coming out of dysregulated families and dysfunctional relations.”


(Dr. Claudia Riecken, clinician and neuroscientist, Brazil)

 “The book penetrates deeply into the narissist's mind and is filled with myriad gripping novel insights. It gives the reader a great insight into the fears, desires, defenses, and motives of the narcissist, as well as those in relationship with the narcissist.”

(Alison Poulsen, Ph.D.)

 “Brilliant, insightful, extremely relevant, not only clinically, but practically, on a day to day basis.

This work can be immediately applied and be of assistance to our society at large.”

(Dr. Cyndie Spanier, Ph.D., Deputy Director at Pittsburgh Behavioral Medicine, LLC)

Sam is a genius his work most inspiring not only to myself but to my colleagues as well.”


(Joan Jutta Lachkar, Ph.D., Affiliate Member of the New Center for Psychoanalysis and

Author of: How to Talk to a Narcissist; How to Talk to a Borderline; Narcissistic/Borderline Couples)


"Sam Vaknin is an expert on this field and presents his work clearly and with ease. I recommend this book most highly as awareness of NPD is crucial in this world today and Sam Vaknin gives his exclusive comprehensive understandings of this topic. This book will help you with human interactions in dealing with families, friends and co-workers.

This is a most valuable investment for you in reading and re-reading, to have in your library. This read is worth several therapy sessions I believe and more so in fact."


(Audrey Epstein, M.S. Ed., MPA)


“Clinicians, researchers and narcissistic abuse victims alike have benefited from this one-of-a-kind book about narcissistic personality disorder. As a psychologist who specializes in narcissistic abuse recovery, psychopathy, and narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), I endorse this book as an empowering clinical tool. This resource has helped me to form a clearer diagnostic impression of malignant narcissists who seek my help during episodes of desperation and withdrawal due to narcissistic supply depletion. Armed with a more comprehensive understanding of NPD, I feel calm and in control when ambushed by narcissistic rage during diagnostic interviews and psychotherapy sessions. Vaknin's familiar descriptions of psychological theory and clinical terminology are quite helpful in managing transference and countertransference issues in order to maintain healthy therapeutic boundaries. This book is an invaluable resource to mental health professionals to combat compassion fatigue and psychological abuse when working with cluster b personality pathology. I highly encourage clinicians to both read and reference Malignant Self-love to improve treatment outcomes for victims of narcissistic abuse.”


(Dr. April Jones, Licensed Psychologist in Chicago, Illinois, USA)


"Sam Vaknin's book is THE bible on Narcissism!"


(Mary Jo Fay, author of 'When Your Perfect Partner Goes Perfectly Wrong - Loving or Leaving the Narcissist in Your Life')

"I consider this book to be the compass for Narcissistic Personality Disorder education" (Jen Emmerich, LMSW, ACSW)

"There is no more important work than this one on the subject ... You may very well discover yourself."


(Heyward Bruce Ewart, III, Ph.D., author of 'Am I Bad')

"Read Malignant Self Love so you will understand that you are NOT crazy, you are just embedded in a crazy making relationship."


(Liane J. Leedom, M.D., author of 'Just Like His Father?')

"Vaknin's depth and breadth are unmatched anywhere else and by anyone else.

He knows everything there is to know about narcissistic and psychopathic abusers and how to cope with them effectively."


(Yomtov Barak, family therapist)

"I was stimulated just as I was challenged and enlightened."


(Robert L. Mueller, author of 'Bullying Bosses')

"The only source of such vast, serious, elaborated and thorough first-hand information about Narcissism available.

Useful for victims as well as therapists."


(Dr. Nili Raam, author)

'Provides the partners, family and friends of NPD sufferers, and the sufferers themselves,

with deep insight into the numerous expressions of this devastating and often insidious disorder."


(Esther Veltheim, author of 'Beyond Concepts')

"One powerful healing tool in our therapy with these people is Dr. Vaknin's book.

The most accurate portrayal of the 'typical' cult leader we have ever seen."


(Robert Pardon, Director of MeadowHaven)

"A must read for psychologists, social workers, and all individuals who want to learn how to deal with the narcissists in their lives."


(Laurie Anthony, teacher and author)

"Required reading for any codependent - to understand how the other side works."


(Dr. Irene, psychologist and Webmistress of

"If you wish to get under the skin of a Narcissist, if you wish to get to know

how he thinks and feels and why he behaves as he does, then this is the book for you."


(Dr. Anthony Benis, Mount Sinai Hospital, New York, and author "Towards Self and Sanity - On the Genetic Origins of the Human Character")


"Sam Vaknin is a leading authority on the topic of narcissism."


(Lisa Angelettie M.S.W., former editor of BellaOnline's Mental Health, "What is Narcissistic Personality Disorder")


"I cannot recommend this book enough to those of you who have this disorder, to families and friends who are trying to understand."


(Patty Pheil, MSW, Mental Health Today )


"(T)his book is a must read and will give you insight into the emotionally destructive people in your workplace, your family and among your friends.

Sam Vaknin clears up the questions, confusion, and effects of dealing with narcissists: the book is well written, informative, and therapeutic. “


(Carolyn Reilly, MSW San Jose, Costa Rica)


Other Testimonials

"...This book has an important purpose. I am sure it will be appreciated in a library, classroom or among the mental health profession."


(Katherine Theriault, Inscriptions Magazine, Vol. 2, Issue 20)


“I challenge anyone to get this book, pick any page at random and not be impressed by the depth and quality of the unique insight into NPD that is provided there.

A truly excellent and thorough piece of work that solidifies Sam's position as the global authority on the subject of Narcissistic Personality Disorder.”


(Richard Grannon, Spartan Life Coach)


"Now, for the first time, a much-needed first hand account of what Narcissistic Personality Disorder is like. Offers insight and clarity."


(Howard Brown, 4Therapy )


“Sam Vaknin's study of narcissism is truly insightful. The author has done probably more than anyone else to educate others to this poorly understood condition. In this, his twelfth book, he shares his considerable knowledge and experience of narcissism in a comprehensive yet easy to read style.”


(The late Tim Field, Bully Online )


Sam has plugged all the loopholes, exposed all the plots, and introduced a new language to confront the Narcissist. A 'hands-on' tool that can immediately bring relief. If you want to breathe again, if you are at your wits end, if everything has been tried and failed, if you NEED a change, then Malignant Self Love can give you your life back. This book is a lifesaver!

(Kathy Stringer, ToddlerTime )


FIVE STAR rating at Barnes and Noble - Read what more than 200 readers have to say - Click HERE!

How to Use Skype, WhatsApp, or Viber to Interview me:

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You can place a 3-way call to Sam Vaknin. Your Skype (computer) is able to connect your U.S. land phone with Sam's land phone (Macedonia). It should be done as a Skype 3-way 'conference' call.

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Call Sam's land phone (using Skype on your computer), then call your show's call-in number. The call then becomes a 3-way 'conference' call. If you put your own Skype microphone on 'mute', you can eliminate all background noise from your end of the 'conference.'


Either use Skype to call Sam's landline, or his cell phones (+38978319143 or +79884640967).


Use Skype on your computer, call your own #, then call (add in) Sam's number in Macedonia.

You can also use your land line phone for a 3-way (no Skype). Just add an international long-distance plan to your account and try a 3-way using your own phone.