Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), Self-love, Narcissism, Narcissists, Psychopaths,


And Relationships with Abusers, Stalkers, and Bullies 

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With hundreds of people suffering from the Narcissistic Personality Disorder (narcissists)

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I am the author of Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited, the pioneering work about narcissistic abuse, now in its 10th , DSM-V compatible revision. My work is quoted in well over 1000 scholarly publications and in over 3000 books (partial list here). My Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse YouTube channel and my other channels have more than 52 million views and 255,000 subscribers.


The Web site "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" had been, for many years, an Open Directory Cool Site and is a Psych-UK recommended Site.

I am certified in psychological counseling techniques by Brainbench.

I served as the editor of Mental Health Disorders categories in the Open Directory Project and on I maintain my own Websites about the Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and about relationships with abusive narcissists and psychopaths here and in HealthyPlace.

You can read my work on many other Web sites: Mental Health Matters, Mental Health Sanctuary, Mental Health Today, Kathi's Mental Health Review and others. I write a column for Bellaonline on Narcissism and Abusive Relationships and am a frequent contributor to Websites such as and Bizymoms (where I am an expert on personality disorders).

I served as the author of the Personality Disorders topic, Narcissistic Personality Disorder topic, the Verbal and Emotional Abuse topic, and the Spousal Abuse and Domestic Violence topic, all four on Suite101. I am the moderator of the Narcissistic Abuse Study List , the Toxic Relationships Study List, and other mailing lists with a total of c. 20,000 members. I also publish a bi-weekly Abusive Relationships Newsletter.

You can view my biography here.

I suggest you read this first, "What is Pathological Narcissism?"

"A pattern of traits and behaviours which signify infatuation and obsession with one's self to the exclusion of all others and the egotistic and ruthless pursuit of one's gratification, dominance and ambition.

Narcissism is named after the ancient Greek myth of Narcissus who was a handsome Greek youth who rejected the desperate advances of the nymph Echo. In punishment of his cruelty, he was doomed to fall in love with his own reflection in a pool of water. Unable to consummate his love, he pined away and changed into the flower that bears his name to this very day."

Feel free to ask me your questions about pathological narcissism, abusive relationships, and the Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Send your questions to: or

Abusive Relationship Newsletter

Who is a Narcissist - Definition of Malignant Narcissism

Narcissism at a Glance

Narcissistic Personality Disorder at a Glance

Narcissistic Personality Disorder Tips

Narcissism, Self Awareness and Healing

Why Does the Narcissist or Psychopath Keep Coming Back?

How can I Save My Child from His Father's Narcissism?

Divorcing the Narcissist and the Psychopath

Do Narcissists Hate Women?

Narcissism, Self Love and Self Destruction

What's the Difference between Narcissism and Other Mental Health Disorders?

Can the Narcissist become Violent?

Can the Narcissist Ever Get Better? Is it Worth the Wait?

Is there any Difference between Male and Female Narcissists?

Thematic Guide to the Narcissism Web Site

82 Additional Frequently Asked Questions about Narcissism

Frequently Asked Questions about other Personality Disorders

The Mind of One Narcissist - Sam Vaknin Journalizes and Blogs

Read The Narcissism Book of Quotes (free) - Click HERE!

Read Sample Chapters of "Malignant Self Love - Narcissism Revisited" - Click HERE!

Mental Health and Psychology Dictionary

What is Abuse (series)

Abuse in the Family (series)

Narcissism, Culture, and Society

Narcissistic Leaders

Collective Narcissism

The Psychology of Torture

Narcissism in the Boardroom

Personality Disorders - Use and Abuse of Differential Diagnoses

Object Relations - The Psychology of Narcissistic Mass and Serial Killers

Narcissism, Ethnic or Religious Affiliation, Terrorism - Is there any connection?

Bibliography - Narcissism, Pathological Narcissism, The Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)

Webliography - Narcissism, Pathological Narcissism, The Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)

Chats and Interviews

Financial Times: When narcissism becomes pathological (click HERE to download the article)

HealthyPlace Narcissism and Abuse Videos


Narcissists as Abusers TV Shows

(Click "On Demand" at the bottom of the player and select the relevant shows on narcissism and abuse)

HealthyPlace CHAT with Sam Vaknin

Relationships with Abusive Narcissists CHAT

Narcissists in the Workplace Chat Transcript

WhoHub Interview

Help Me Rhonda! radio talk show on narcissists

Listen to Network Courage Interview: HERE and HERE

Listen to an Interview with Monda Williams

Audrey Michelle Talks to Sam Vaknin – Click HERE, HERE, HERE, or HERE

Listen to an Interview with Phil Hendrie - Part I, Part II

WebMD Narcissism Chat with Sam Vaknin

Mental Health Today Narcissism Chat

Dialogs about Narcissism and Abuse

Download all Narcissism and Abuse CHAT TRANSCRIPTS

Narcissism in the Workplace - New Narc City - Interview in the New York Press

Listen to an INTERVIEW about Narcissism and Abuse with Sam Vaknin

Listen to Conversations with a Narcissist - Click HERE for MP3

ABC Radio Psychopaths in Suits - Listen or Read Transcript

Narcissism - Listen to the Infinite Mind Radio Show

Mirror, Mirror - Interview with the Toronto Sun

The Monster in the Mirror (Sunday Times)

More! Magazine: Has your man got a cheating disorder

Egomania (Channel 4 Documentary in the United Kingdom) - Wikipedia Entry

I, Psychopath (Documentary) - CBC and IMDB (Vaknin and "I, Psychopath")

HealthyPlace Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) Community

Case Studies on the Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

Ask Sam on the Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

Ask Sam on the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Forum

Fiction and Poetry

Poetry of Healing and Abuse: My Poems

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