Psychosexual Stages of Personal Development
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The Viennese neurologist, Sigmund Freud, was
among the first to offer a model of psychological development in early childhood
(within the framework of psychoanalysis). He closely linked the sex drive
(libido) to the formation of personality and described five psychosexual stages,
four of which are centered around various erogenous zones in the body.
The pursuit of pleasure ("the pleasure principle") and the avoidance of pain
drive the infant to explore his or her self and the world at large. Pleasure is
inextricably linked to sexual gratification. In the oral phase (from birth to 24
months), the baby focuses on the tongue, lips, and mouth and derives
gratification from breast feeding, thumb sucking, biting, swallowing, and other
oral exploratory activities.
This is naturally followed by the anal stage (24 to 36 months). The baby
immensely enjoys defecation and related bowel movements. But it is also the
first time in his or her life that the toddler is subjected to the censure and
displeasure of caretakers. Hitherto unconditionally adoring adults now demand
that the infant delay gratification, relieve himself only in the bathroom, and
not play with his feces. This experience - of hitherto unprecedented adult
approbation - can be traumatic.
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The phallic stage (age 3 to 6 years) involves the discovery of
the penis and clitoris as foci of pleasurable experience. This tantalizing
novelty is coupled with sexual desire directed at the parent of the opposite sex
(boys are attracted to their mothers and girls, to their fathers). The child
overtly and covertly competes with the same-sex parent for the desired parent's
attention: boys joust with their fathers and girls with their mothers. These are
the famous Oedipal and Electra complexes.
If the parent is insufficiently mature or narcissistic and encourages the
attentions of the child in acts of covert (emotional) and overt (physical)
incest, it could lead to the development of certain mental health disorders,
among them the Histrionic, Narcissistic, and Borderline personality disorders.
Doting, over-indulgence, and smothering are, therefore, forms of child abuse.
Sexual innuendo, treating the child as an adult or substitute partner, or
regarding one's offspring as an extension of one's self also constitute abusive
conduct.
The phallic stage is followed by 6 to 7 years of latent sexuality that is
rekindled in puberty. Adolescence is a period of personal development labeled by
Freud the genital phase. In the previous rungs of psychosexual evolution, the
child's own body was the source of sexual pleasure. Hitherto, the adolescent and
young adult seeks sexual gratification from and invests sexual energy in others.
This object-relatedness is what we call mature love.
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