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Narcissistic Abuse or Its Aftermath?
I coined the phrase “narcissistic abuse” in 1995.
And “no contact”. And much else besides.
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queries via WhatsApp at this number +38970565488, and Sam Vaknin will record
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Cold Therapy is a treatment modality for
Depression and for Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).
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500 USD if you are based in any country outside the Eurozone)
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Developed
by Sam Vaknin, Cold
Therapy is based on two premises: (1) That narcissistic disorders are actually
forms of complex post-traumatic conditions; and (2) That narcissists are the
outcomes of arrested development and attachment dysfunctions. Consequently,
Cold Therapy borrows techniques from child psychology and from treatment
modalities used to deal with PTSD.
Cold
Therapy consists of the re-traumatization of the narcissistic client in a
hostile, non-holding environment which resembles the ambience of the original
trauma. The adult patient successfully tackles this second round of hurt and
thus resolves early childhood conflicts and achieves closure rendering his now
maladaptive narcissistic defenses redundant, unnecessary, and obsolete. It was
found to also be effective with major depressive episodes.
Cold
Therapy makes use of proprietary techniques such as erasure (suppressing the
client’s speech and free expression and gaining clinical information and insights
from his reactions to being so stifled). Other techniques include: grandiosity
reframing, guided imagery, negative iteration, other-scoring, happiness map,
mirroring, escalation, role play, assimilative confabulation, hypervigilant
referencing, and re-parenting. It is proving to be an effective treatment for
major depressive episodes (see this article about
the link between pathological narcissism and depression and this article about
depression and regulatory narcissistic supply in narcissism).
Cold
Therapy Lecture Notes
Introduction
to Cold Therapy (German)
Cold
Therapy, Warmly Recommended
Journal
of Clinical Review and Case Reports
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Rangelovska
(200 USD in USA, 200
Euros in Europe, 200 GBP in UK)
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and Lidija Rangelovska!!!
(350 USD in USA, 350
Euros in Europe, 350 GBP in the UK)
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Counselling Time
Lidija Rangelovska, an expert on narcissistic abuse and recovery from post-traumatic
conditions is now available for consultations. Lidija is the long-time editor
of the "Malignant
Self-love" series of books, e-books, and video lectures on personality
disorders and abusive relationships with narcissists and psychopaths.
How to Pay?
Payment
for single counselling sessions is only via Remitly or Western Union.
Payment
for Cold Therapy is only via bank to bank (wire) transfer.
We recommend to pay via Remitly. Send cash for pickup at the Capital Transfer DOO Skopje or Capital Transfer DOO
Skopje Agents locations: (write to samvaknin@gmail.com to obtain the
details).
Click on this link: https://www.remitly.com/us/en/north-macedonia
Alternatively, you can also send cash via Western Union or MoneyGram
to: LIDIJA RANGELOVSKA, SKOPJE, NORTH MACEDONIA or to SHMUEL VAKNIN, SKOPJE,
NORTH MACEDONIA.
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Select the product or service you want to pay for.
Note the amount to be paid.
There are 3 additional ways to pay:
OPTION 1
Pay via Western Union or MoneyGram with a few clicks!!! VERY SIMPLE!
You can transfer the amount to be paid for cash pickup via Western
Union or MoneyGram to LIDIJA RANGELOVSKA in Skopje, North Macedonia (click HERE for detailed how-to instructions);
OPTION 2
Bank to bank transfer with a few clicks!!! VERY SIMPLE!
You can wire transfer or send money to the bank account of SHMUEL
VAKNIN. Write to me for the account data you need in order to make the
transfer.
How to transfer money from bank to bank?
You can send the amount to be paid to my bank account via a wire
transfer from your bank account (using your online banking account, or by
visiting your branch).
Write to me at samvaknin@gmail.com for details of my bank
account.
OPTION 3
You can use these online payment services to:
(1) Transfer cash for pickup in a designated location; or
(2) Send the payment to my bank account; or
(3) Send the payment to one of my credit cards
Within minutes.
Write to me at samvaknin@gmail.com for details of my bank
account, my address, or of one of my credit cards.
TransferWise
(Web or App)
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or App)
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or App)
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on how to transfer funds with PaySend.
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Small
World (Web or App)
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GlobalWebPay
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OFX (Web or App,
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SendMoney24
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How to transfer money with
WESTERN UNION or MoneyGram
There are many easy ways to transfer money with Western Union or with
MoneyGram.
IMPORTANT: Make sure to specify during the transfer the currency I
should be receiving: USD, EUR, or GBP.
1. Western Union or MoneyGram apps – download them via these links:
https://www.westernunion.com/us/en/mobile-app.html (Western Union)
https://www.moneygram.com/us/en/money-transfer-app (MoneyGram)
Download the Western Union or MoneyGram app to your phone (also from
Google Play or Apple Store). Install it. Follow the instructions to send money.
Send the amount to be paid to:
LIDIJA RANGELOVSKA in Skopje,
North Macedonia
Send me the MTCN (the transaction
confirmation number) or MoneyGram transaction reference number - write to me
on: samvaknin@gmail.com
That's it. I will contact you to set up the time for counselling
session and provide you with my contact details.
Are there any other ways to pay you?
2. Send money from a physical location
You can make the transfer through any of the offices (agent locations)
of Western Union or MoneyGram, including the one nearest to you.
You can GO to the office of the agent of Western Union or MoneyGram
nearest to you and FILL IN the relevant FORMS to send the fee to Lidija
Rangelovska in Skopje, North Macedonia.
3. By Phone
B. You can make the transfer by PHONE: call Western Union or MoneyGram
(a 1-800 number) and they will bill your credit card by PHONE.
4. Pay Online
You can also effect the transfer ONLINE:
Western Union: Click on this link to
transfer money through Western Union
MoneyGram: Click on this link to transfer money
through MoneyGram
IMPORTANT!!!
Upon completion of the transfer - you will receive a transaction code
(MTCN) from Western Union or reference number (EIGHT digits) from MoneyGram.
Please e-mail the transaction code/reference number to Sam Vaknin at: samvaknin@gmail.com
Upon withdrawal of the funds, I will send you a CONFIRMATION MESSAGE.
The confirmation message will include:
1. The download links for the 11 video files;
Or – if you paid for counselling or a personal training:
2. A phone number or handle to call via Skype, WhatsApp, Facebook
Messenger, or Viber and a few options regarding available times for the
counselling session.