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Narcissistic Abuse or Its Aftermath?
I coined the phrase “narcissistic abuse” in 1995. And “no
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The Complete Record of 3 Days of the Level 1 Seminar
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Cold Therapy is a treatment modality for Depression
and for Narcissistic
Personality Disorder (NPD).
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Developed by Sam Vaknin, Cold Therapy is
based on two premises: (1) That narcissistic disorders are actually forms of
complex post-traumatic conditions; and (2) That narcissists are the outcomes of
arrested development and attachment dysfunctions. Consequently, Cold Therapy
borrows techniques from child psychology and from treatment modalities used to
deal with PTSD.
Cold Therapy consists
of the re-traumatization of the narcissistic client in a hostile, non-holding
environment which resembles the ambience of the original trauma. The adult
patient successfully tackles this second round of hurt and thus resolves early
childhood conflicts and achieves closure rendering his now maladaptive
narcissistic defenses redundant, unnecessary, and obsolete. It was found to
also be effective with major depressive episodes.
Cold Therapy makes use
of proprietary techniques such as erasure (suppressing the client’s speech and
free expression and gaining clinical information and insights from his
reactions to being so stifled). Other techniques include: grandiosity reframing,
guided imagery, negative iteration, other-scoring, happiness map, mirroring,
escalation, role play, assimilative confabulation, hypervigilant referencing,
and re-parenting. It is proving to be an effective treatment for major
depressive episodes (see this article about the link between pathological narcissism and
depression and this article about depression and regulatory narcissistic supply in
narcissism).
Cold
Therapy Lecture Notes
Introduction
to Cold Therapy (German)
Cold
Therapy, Warmly Recommended
Journal
of Clinical Review and Case Reports
Phone (WhatsApp, Skype,
Viber), or Email Counselling Session or Cold Therapy with Sam Vaknin
Counselling advice regarding all relationships with
narcissists and psychopaths and narcissistic abuse
With the author of the Bible of Narcissism, "Malignant
Self-love: Narcissism Revisited"
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Rangelovska
(200 USD in USA, 200 Euros
in Europe, 200 GBP in UK)
OR, NEW!
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and Lidija Rangelovska!!!
(450 USD in USA, 450 Euros
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Counselling Time
Lidija Rangelovska, an expert on narcissistic abuse and recovery from post-traumatic
conditions is now available for consultations. Lidija is the long-time editor
of the "Malignant
Self-love" series of books, e-books, and video lectures on personality
disorders and abusive relationships with narcissists and psychopaths.
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Select the product or service you want to pay
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Note the amount to be paid.
SUMMARY OF RECOMMENDED PAYMENT OPTIONS
BEST OPTION for MULTIPLE SESSIONS
Bank to bank transfer with a few clicks!!!
VERY SIMPLE!
You can wire transfer or send money to the bank
account of SHMUEL VAKNIN. Write to me for the account data you need in order to
make the transfer.
How to transfer money from bank to bank?
You can send the amount to be paid to my bank
account via a wire transfer from your bank account (using your online banking
account, or by visiting your branch) or by using the payment
services listed here.
Write to me at samvaknin@gmail.com
for details of my bank account.
BEST OPTIONS for SINGLE SESSIONS and to
Purchase the Cold Therapy Videos
ATTENTION: To avoid extra fees, make sure that the Send Amount and
the Receiving Amount are denominated in the SAME CURRENCY (USD/USD or EUR/EUR).
Moneygram or Western Union
(WRITE to samvaknin@gmail.com to make sure that we
are not above quota)
You can also send cash via Western Union or MoneyGram to:
LIDIJA RANGELOVSKA, SKOPJE, NORTH MACEDONIA or to
SHMUEL VAKNIN, SKOPJE, NORTH MACEDONIA
(Click HERE for detailed how-to instructions).
Remitly
As a last resort, you can also pay via Remitly. Send cash for
pickup at the Capital Transfer DOO Skopje or Capital
Transfer DOO Skopje Agents locations: (write to samvaknin@gmail.com
to obtain the details).
Click on this link: https://www.remitly.com/us/en/north-macedonia
DETAILS OF PAYMENT PROCEDURES
OPTION 1
Pay via Western Union or MoneyGram with a few clicks!!! VERY SIMPLE!
You can transfer the amount to be paid for cash pickup via Western
Union or MoneyGram to LIDIJA RANGELOVSKA in Skopje, North Macedonia (click HERE for detailed how-to instructions);
OPTION 2 (RECOMMENDED for MULTIPLE SESSIONS)
Bank to bank transfer with a few clicks!!!
VERY SIMPLE!
You can wire transfer or send money to the bank
account of SHMUEL VAKNIN. Write to me for the account data you need in order to
make the transfer.
How to transfer money from bank to bank?
You can send the amount to be paid to my bank
account via a wire transfer from your bank account (using your online banking
account, or by visiting your branch) or by using the payment
services listed here.
Write to me at samvaknin@gmail.com
for details of my bank account.
You can use these online payment services
to:
(1) Transfer cash for pickup in a designated
location; or
(2) Send the payment to my bank account; or
(3) Send the payment to one of my credit
cards
Within minutes.
Write to me at samvaknin@gmail.com
for details of my bank account, my address, or of one of my credit cards.
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PaySend (Web or App)
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transfer funds with PaySend.
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Small
World (Web or App)
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Paysera
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OFX (Web or App, only if
you purchase 2 hours or more)
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SendMoney24
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How to transfer money with
WESTERN UNION or MoneyGram
(WRITE to samvaknin@gmail.com to make sure that we are
not above quota)
There are many easy ways to transfer money
with Western Union or with MoneyGram.
IMPORTANT: Make sure to specify during the
transfer the currency I should be receiving: USD, EUR, or GBP.
1. Western Union or MoneyGram apps – download
them via these links:
https://www.westernunion.com/us/en/mobile-app.html (Western Union)
https://www.moneygram.com/us/en/money-transfer-app (MoneyGram)
Download the Western Union or MoneyGram app
to your phone (also from Google Play or Apple Store). Install it. Follow the
instructions to send money.
Send the amount to be paid to:
LIDIJA RANGELOVSKA or to SHMUEL VAKNIN in
Skopje, North Macedonia
Send me the MTCN (the transaction confirmation number) or MoneyGram transaction
reference number - write to me on: samvaknin@gmail.com
That's it. I will contact you to set up
the time for counselling session and provide you with my contact details.
Are there any other ways to pay you?
2. Send money from a physical location
You can make the transfer through any of the
offices (agent locations) of Western Union or MoneyGram, including the one
nearest to you.
You can GO to the office of the agent of
Western Union or MoneyGram nearest to you and FILL IN the relevant FORMS to
send the fee to Lidija Rangelovska in Skopje, North Macedonia.
3. By Phone
B. You can make the transfer by PHONE: call
Western Union or MoneyGram (a 1-800 number) and they will bill your credit card
by PHONE.
4. Pay Online
You can also effect the transfer ONLINE:
Western Union: Click on this link to transfer money through Western Union
MoneyGram: Click on this link to transfer money through MoneyGram
IMPORTANT!!!
Upon completion of the transfer - you will
receive a transaction code (MTCN) from Western Union or reference number (EIGHT
digits) from MoneyGram.
Please e-mail the transaction code/reference
number to Sam Vaknin at: samvaknin@gmail.com
Upon withdrawal of the funds, I will send you
a CONFIRMATION MESSAGE.
The confirmation message will include:
1. The download links for the 11 video files;
Or – if you paid for counselling or a
personal training:
2. A phone number or handle to call via Skype,
WhatsApp, Facebook Messenger, or Viber and a few options regarding available
times for the counselling session.