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Narcissistic Abuse or Its Aftermath?
I coined the phrase “narcissistic abuse” in
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Therapy is based on two premises: (1) That narcissistic disorders are actually
forms of complex post-traumatic conditions; and (2) That narcissists are the
outcomes of arrested development and attachment dysfunctions. Consequently,
Cold Therapy borrows techniques from child psychology and from treatment
modalities used to deal with PTSD.
Cold
Therapy consists of the re-traumatization of the narcissistic client in a
hostile, non-holding environment which resembles the ambience of the original
trauma. The adult patient successfully tackles this second round of hurt and
thus resolves early childhood conflicts and achieves closure rendering his now
maladaptive narcissistic defenses redundant,
unnecessary, and obsolete. It was found to also be effective with major
depressive episodes.
Cold
Therapy makes use of proprietary techniques such as erasure (suppressing the
client’s speech and free expression and gaining clinical information and insights
from his reactions to being so stifled). Other techniques include: grandiosity
reframing, guided imagery, negative iteration, other-scoring, happiness map,
mirroring, escalation, role play, assimilative confabulation, hypervigilant
referencing, and re-parenting. It is proving to be an effective treatment for
major depressive episodes (see this article about
the link between pathological narcissism and depression and this article about
depression and regulatory narcissistic supply in narcissism).
Cold
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Introduction
to Cold Therapy (German)
Cold
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Send me the MTCN (the transaction confirmation number) or MoneyGram
transaction reference number - write to me on: samvaknin@gmail.com
That's it. I will contact you to set up the time
for counselling session and provide you with my contact details.
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