Narcissistic Abuse or Its Aftermath?
I coined the phrase “narcissistic abuse” in 1995. And “no contact”. And much else besides.
NEW! Pay for a counselling session (see below), drop audio recordings of your queries via WhatsApp at this number +38970565488, and Sam Vaknin will record his responses to your questions on the same chat.
Download 22 Gb of Cold Therapy Videos (11 Downloads, 2 Gb each file):
The Complete Record of 3 Days of the Level 1 Seminar in Vienna, Austria!
Cold Therapy is a treatment modality for Depression and for Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).
The price for the 11 videos pack: 400 Euros (or 500 USD if you are based in any country outside the Eurozone)
Developed by Sam Vaknin, Cold Therapy is based on two premises: (1) That narcissistic disorders are actually forms of complex post-traumatic conditions; and (2) That narcissists are the outcomes of arrested development and attachment dysfunctions. Consequently, Cold Therapy borrows techniques from child psychology and from treatment modalities used to deal with PTSD.
Cold Therapy consists of the re-traumatization of the narcissistic client in a hostile, non-holding environment which resembles the ambience of the original trauma. The adult patient successfully tackles this second round of hurt and thus resolves early childhood conflicts and achieves closure rendering his now maladaptive narcissistic defenses redundant, unnecessary, and obsolete. It was found to also be effective with major depressive episodes.
Cold Therapy makes use of proprietary techniques such as erasure (suppressing the client’s speech and free expression and gaining clinical information and insights from his reactions to being so stifled). Other techniques include: grandiosity reframing, guided imagery, negative iteration, other-scoring, happiness map, mirroring, escalation, role play, assimilative confabulation, hypervigilant referencing, and re-parenting. It is proving to be an effective treatment for major depressive episodes (see this article about the link between pathological narcissism and depression and this article about depression and regulatory narcissistic supply in narcissism).
Phone (WhatsApp, Skype, Viber), or Email Counselling Session or Cold Therapy with Sam Vaknin
Counselling advice regarding all relationships with narcissists and psychopaths and narcissistic abuse
With the author of the Bible of Narcissism, "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited"
Purchase a 60 minutes phone (WhatsApp, Skype, Viber), or e-mail counselling session with Sam Vaknin
(400 USD in USA, 400 Euros in Europe, 400 GBP in UK)
Cold Therapy (One on One, in person)
Purchase Cold Therapy Level 1 (5 days, 30 hours, 7500 USD/EUR/GBP)
Purchase Cold Therapy Level 2 (5 days, 30 hours, 7500 USD/EUR/GBP)
Purchase Cold Therapy Level 3 (30 days, 30 hours, 7500 USD/EUR/GBP)
(200 USD in USA, 200 Euros in Europe, 200 GBP in UK)
Purchase a 60 minutes phone (WhatsApp, Skype) counselling session with BOTH Sam Vaknin and Lidija Rangelovska!!!
(350 USD in USA, 350 Euros in Europe, 350 GBP in the UK)
Lidija Rangelovska, an expert on narcissistic abuse and recovery from post-traumatic conditions is now available for consultations. Lidija is the long-time editor of the "Malignant Self-love" series of books, e-books, and video lectures on personality disorders and abusive relationships with narcissists and psychopaths.
How to Pay?
Payment for single counselling sessions is only via Remitly or Western Union.
Payment for Cold Therapy is only via bank to bank (wire) transfer.
Click on this link: https://www.remitly.com/us/en/north-macedonia
Alternatively, you can also send cash via Western Union or MoneyGram to: LIDIJA RANGELOVSKA, SKOPJE, NORTH MACEDONIA or to SHMUEL VAKNIN, SKOPJE, NORTH MACEDONIA.
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There are 3 additional ways to pay:
Pay via Western Union or MoneyGram with a few clicks!!! VERY SIMPLE!
You can transfer the amount to be paid for cash pickup via Western Union or MoneyGram to LIDIJA RANGELOVSKA in Skopje, North Macedonia (click HERE for detailed how-to instructions);
Bank to bank transfer with a few clicks!!! VERY SIMPLE!
You can wire transfer or send money to the bank account of SHMUEL VAKNIN. Write to me for the account data you need in order to make the transfer.
How to transfer money from bank to bank?
You can send the amount to be paid to my bank account via a wire transfer from your bank account (using your online banking account, or by visiting your branch).
Write to me at email@example.com for details of my bank account.
You can use these online payment services to:
(1) Transfer cash for pickup in a designated location; or
(2) Send the payment to my bank account; or
(3) Send the payment to one of my credit cards
Write to me at firstname.lastname@example.org for details of my bank account, my address, or of one of my credit cards.
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How to transfer money with WESTERN UNION or MoneyGram
There are many easy ways to transfer money with Western Union or with MoneyGram.
IMPORTANT: Make sure to specify during the transfer the currency I should be receiving: USD, EUR, or GBP.
1. Western Union or MoneyGram apps – download them via these links:
https://www.westernunion.com/us/en/mobile-app.html (Western Union)
Download the Western Union or MoneyGram app to your phone (also from Google Play or Apple Store). Install it. Follow the instructions to send money.
Send the amount to be paid to:
LIDIJA RANGELOVSKA in Skopje, North Macedonia
Send me the MTCN (the transaction confirmation number) or MoneyGram transaction reference number - write to me on: email@example.com
That's it. I will contact you to set up the time for counselling session and provide you with my contact details.
Are there any other ways to pay you?
2. Send money from a physical location
You can make the transfer through any of the offices (agent locations) of Western Union or MoneyGram, including the one nearest to you.
You can GO to the office of the agent of Western Union or MoneyGram nearest to you and FILL IN the relevant FORMS to send the fee to Lidija Rangelovska in Skopje, North Macedonia.
3. By Phone
B. You can make the transfer by PHONE: call Western Union or MoneyGram (a 1-800 number) and they will bill your credit card by PHONE.
4. Pay Online
You can also effect the transfer ONLINE:
Western Union: Click on this link to transfer money through Western Union
MoneyGram: Click on this link to transfer money through MoneyGram
Upon completion of the transfer - you will receive a transaction code (MTCN) from Western Union or reference number (EIGHT digits) from MoneyGram.
Please e-mail the transaction code/reference number to Sam Vaknin at: firstname.lastname@example.org
Upon withdrawal of the funds, I will send you a CONFIRMATION MESSAGE.
The confirmation message will include:
1. The download links for the 11 video files;
Or – if you paid for counselling or a personal training:
2. A phone number or handle to call via Skype, WhatsApp, Facebook Messenger, or Viber and a few options regarding available times for the counselling session.